Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points.
Hi I have read all your comments and although I am not married to a Doctor my dad was a Doctor and I think marrying a Doctor is no different to marrying any man who works with his own ambitions.
He has lived alone forever and now we are living together, iif, and of course, I have moved daying another state to be with him.
What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path.
I say, Follow your heart.