I try to be understanding but I find myself getting so angry. How would that motivate you to work out every day to get a girl.
She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material.
As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly the view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. He will not be permitted to bless the dating in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the marriage, which he may not be comfortable with.