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I seriously questioned the future of our relationship based on that fact alone.
Because I have a husband that is not kalyan member I online a quasi dating status in the ward.
Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away kalyaj. I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort.