I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head.
The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. I forgot to mention that we've only been dating for 6 mo.
Now I don't get offended when he falls dzting when I come over - in fact, he puts his head in my lap and I run my hands through his hair until he falls asleep.